Teenage is a very tender time period- we have several problems to solve. Having a teenage ‘crush’ is one of those experiences which has left no one devoid of. Teens get so lost in the feelings of liking someone that they start believing that they have found their one ‘true love’. Here are few genuine, simple points in this Love test which can help you differentiate between LIKE and LOVE or LOVE and INFATUATION.
Love Test 1: Time Period
Love Test 2: The Why?
Love Test 3: Perfectionist
Infatuation has to do only with physical features and lust. Love goes beyond that. If you find yourself listing out the beauty of someone’s physical features, then it is definitely NOT love. Remember, love is never perfect whereas infatuation is world full of unrealistic, fairytale dreams.
Love Test 4: Selflessness
If you are infatuated with someone, you would do anything to grab their attention or make them like you. But in love, you learn the art of selflessness. You learn to let them be free. You know that it is not important for that person to love you back or to reciprocate mutual feelings.
Love Test 5: Self Image
When you are infatuated to someone, you start worrying about how you look. You make sure that whenever you have encounter with them, you look your ‘THE BEST’. But when you love someone, you don’t care about your looks. Because deep down you know that they would still love you in your ugliness and sickness.