The two of you have been dating for a long amount of time now and you want to finally broach upon the subject of having sex. However, before bringing up the matter with him there is one important thing that you want to know: is he a virgin or not? Knowing this answer will obviously very important to you and will change the way you approach having sex with him. Here are a few ways to find out if your boyfriend is a virgin or not:
1. Ask him if he is a virgin or not
This might seem like a very scary an daunting thing for you to do, but it’s the easiest way to find out how sexually experienced he is. Be bold and go ahead and ask him this question, it will end up being extremely beneficial for your relationship. I know that it is a pretty serious question to ask your boyfriend but if you cannot talk about it then how will you ever actually have sex. Go ahead, ask him.
2. How intimate he is with your gender
If asking him does not work out, what you can do is notice certain signs that he will show. The most important of these signs is how he behaves with your gender. Is he shy and nervous while talking to other girls or is he overly comfortable with them. If he seems to be completely at ease with your gender, chances are that he is not virgin. Generally, after having sex, you tend to become more comfortable with the opposite gender.
3. Try to seduce your guy
This will be great fun for you as well! Try whispering loving and daring words to him or dress a little provocatively for him. If he reacts very willingly and wants to take steps ahead, it’s likely that he is not a virgin and is ready to have sex with you. If he is a virgin, he will tend to be a little hesitant with you and might even get a little shy because of your advances.
4. Intimacy with you
How is your boyfriend when he is trying to be intimate with you? Is he very bold while making out or does he seem clumsy and awkward? If the answer is the first one then it’s very likely that he has had sex before or he has at least gone to a higher base. If the answer is the second then it is possible that this is a first time for him and he does not know what to do.
5. How bold he is?
This will be a clear indication of if he is a virgin or not. If he is excessively bold and is making huge gestures for you all the time, chances are he feels prepared to deal with whatever will happen in the bedroom. If he is shy and hesitant, he might be testing the waters and might be just as nervous as you are about the whole thing.
Even though asking him would be the best way to find out; you can employ any of the other tactics to try to guess if your boyfriend is a virgin or not. All the best for finding out and I hope you have a great first time.